Fuck Positive Thinking

Positive Thinking is the foundation to countless corporate “personal improvement programs” and a billions-dollar industry to motivational thinking… Worst of all, it is supremely self-centered and almost pathologically unrealistic.

What is a “successful” relationship?

I want to talk about what defines successful (and unsuccessful) relationships. Yeah, that might seem like a weird place to start, but I think you’ll see after the first section why it makes sense. And, yes, I am definitely going to eventually talk about how to meet people, how to start relationships, how to gauge where it’s going, but before we even think about that, we kinda need to know what we’re looking for.